Friday, October 29, 2010

The Talk about Relationships

What’s up y’all! Today I really want to talk about some things that I have seen and or heard for myself about some types of relationships. Ok, so when you’re looking for someone to “be with” what are you really looking for? A lot of people get into a relationship for the wrong thing. People always come at me with the “you just don’t understand, I am really feeling him. But he act like he don’t want me” WHAT! Why do people go after somebody that does not even want them? But you are saying he or she is the one, and that so called one is looking at you as a zero! 

NOW! Back to what I was saying, Relationships are potentially very satisfying; they protect us from loneliness and improve our physical and mental health (so people say). But it is not all plain sailing, and there are an enormous number of problems that can cause disturbances in these relationships. These relationship problems are not just arguments, power struggles and fights, but may also include stress reactions of one sort or another, and these can sometimes lead to depression or anxiety in one or both of the partners. Again, problems such as jealousy and sexual difficulties can often cloud what might otherwise be a successful relationship.

Never stay with someone when the relationship is not how it was, if people want to walk out of your life LET THEM GO! Y’all always think that you can’t do anything without that person. Carry yourself like you are somebody. Have faith in yourself when then say your nothing. And have the right attitude for people…….

“Whenever you're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.”


Thats all im going to say on that note. Wanted to say more…but I will leave it at that.

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